Defeating the fear of criticism, Defeating The Fear Of Criticism – Episode 4

Defeating The Fear Of Criticism – Episode 4

Welcome to my podcast, Defeating the Fear of Criticism – Episode 4.

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Fear Of Criticism

How do you value other people’s opinions? Are you caught up in the way someone else makes you feel? Can what someone says to you determine if you can have a good or bad day? If so, listen to these words carefully. I don’t give a flying rat’s ass what other people think of me. I know that I’m a good person and that I treat others in the same manner as I would want them to treat me. It has no effect on me what other people think of me or if other people don’t believe that I will accomplish what I set out to do.

I learned this lesson a long time ago. When I was a child growing up I had lots of friends and thought that everyone liked me. However, I found out that some people didn’t like me and I never did anything for them to feel that way. As a result, I realized then that some people are just going to like you for who you are and some people are not going to like you for who you are. That doesn’t change who you are. You are you, no one else, embrace it.

I hope you enjoy Episode 4: Defeating the Fear of Criticism.

“You create your own universe as you go along.”
~ Winston Churchill

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Defeating the fear of criticism, Defeating The Fear Of Criticism – Episode 4
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31 thoughts on “Defeating The Fear Of Criticism – Episode 4

  1. ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    ◇ I Don’t Give a Fuck; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I Care yet I AM Psychopath, Totally UnConcerned about People who Mismanage THEIR!!! Emotions

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇


  2. I really needed to read this today. More often that not, I know that I can’t expect everyone to agree with me, yet I still beat myself about it. It’s a vice. Thank you for sharing this!

  3. I used to be a lot fearful of what other people think of me…. I have reduced that to a great extent but at many instances , I do fear the eyes full of scorn and mockery towards me, if I fail in my career or life goals

  4. It is all too easy to try and do the things other people want for you, isn’t it?

    When I went to university to get my technology qualification, it was one that others encouraged me towards. They didn’t push forcefully, but it was assumed this would get me what I needed to get a “good” job. At the time I didn’t think through what I was passionate about: writing and music. These are two things that help me to get up in the morning. I never thought there might be jobs out there that involved more of this work.

    I’m now 32 and I’ve figured it out. So it’s all about concentrating my time and energy in that direction to slowly migrate from corporate 9-5’s to being able to share what I love with others, and encourage them to do the same. It will require the same amount of hard work as working for someone else – probably more – but I will succeed at it. No matter how difficult others might say it is our what direction others think I should be going. As you say, in the captain of me enterprises, so I hold the wheel.

    Thanks Chief, I’m glad Good steered me towards your blog. Keep on keeping on being awesome.

    1. I’m sorry you had some problem. I tested it and it is working fine for me. Hopefully you can get it fixed. If you would like to read what I talked about click on the link “a flying rat’s ass.” The podcast is based on that blog post. Take care.

  5. I find this contradictory to your tag line of “Helping you become the person OTHERS want you to be” (my emphasis). If we don’t care what they think of us, then how can we be what they want?

    1. Thank you for listening and your thoughtful comment. You present a good question and I can see how it can be contradictory. I hope I can explain it well. My whole life I always put what others thought above my own goals and dreams. I was so afraid of criticism that I would abandon my dreams if others disapproved or made fun of me for getting out of my comfort zone. The fear of criticism stops a lot of people from having the life they dream of. Therefore, we have to learn to not care what others think or say about us and focus on our dreams. My dreams and my family are far more important than what others say about me.
      As far as my tag line, the content is; don’t sit around wanting to be like X (place anyone you want here). Get out and become the person that X wants to become. For example, I don’t want to become the next Bill Gates, but I want to become that person Bill Gates wants to be. In the process of becoming better, I wouldn’t care what negative things Gates says about me.
      I appreciate your question. Take care.

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