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I want to eliminate negativity in my life. Unfortunately, that is not possible and might not be possible for you. Therefore, you have to learn to ignore negativity you cannot eliminate.
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Eliminate Negativity
What I am talking about here is negativity from family or coworkers. You might find that you cannot cut these people out of your life. You have to keep seeing them, and when you do, they will spread their negativity around you. Ignore negativity coming from these people.
Negativity in your life will hold you back and keep you from reaching your full potential. Your life will improve once you learn to eliminate or ignore negativity. Here are five tips to ignore negativity.
- Turn off your television and phone.
- Identify and cut loose toxic relationships.
- De-clutter your life.
- Exercise daily.
- Focus on you.
Sources Of Negativity
For me, the vast majority of negativity in my life came from the television and phone. Media and social media inundated my life with negativity constantly. I stopped watching the news and became selective of what shows I watched. I did the same thing with social media. Becoming selective about which platforms I use helped me tremendously.
Like many people, you might not want to eliminate watching the news as I did. If it is negatively affecting you, watch it to be informed but ignore the negative opinions/agendas. The same can be done for social media. Ignore the platforms or posts that tend to spread negativity.
People
Everyone has people in their life that they can do without. If you have someone at home or work you consider toxic, cut them loose. If you cannot cut them loose, learn to ignore their toxicity. Understand what they are doing and how it is affecting you. Immediately after interacting with this type of person, do something positive.

Unclutter
My life can get very cluttered, and I spend too much time on negative things. Do you find your life is the same? Periodically I like to take a look at my life and de-clutter it. I throw out whatever is not helping me grow as a person. If it is not something positive, I do not need it, and out it goes. You will want to eliminate or ignore these things that clutter your life. Doesn’t it feel great when you’ve gotten rid of clutter?
Exercise
One of my favorite things to do to reduce negativity is exercise. I exercise daily; while doing so, I think about positive situations. The negative stuff is not allowed in my mind. Set small goals during your workout. Reward yourself as you hit these small goals. While exercising, listen to music that makes you happy. Get back to nature and take a walk/jog outside. Being outdoors, soaking up the sunshine, and breathing fresh air are very positive.
In addition to daily exercise, another way I ignore negativity is to set aside time for myself every day. I do this early in the morning; it starts my day off right. Take some time for yourself. Go to a quiet room where you are alone in a positive environment. Control your thoughts and only think positive as you meditate. Fill your lungs as you slowly breathe in and out. Get into a relaxed state and speak positive affirmations. The negative will melt away.
I hope you enjoyed this article and it helped in some way. Set up a plan to reduce negative aspects of your life. Do not forget to like, comment, and follow. I appreciate everyone who reads and follows my blog.
I sure wish I had learned and practiced this YEARS ago!! Grand advice!! ❤️🦋🌀〰️
That would make two of us. Thanks for your comments. Scott 🤗❤️
Now, I know I can’t really CONTROL anything external. (Of course the Powers That Be think they can, but not me!) ❤️🦋🌀〰️☯️
It’s also a good idea to consider the source of the negativity. Is it a person that you look up to someone you like and respect? If it’s not someone I particularly like or respect, I try not to take them too seriously. Most of the time, the person or source of negativity is coming from that place.
That’s an excellent point. Negative people close to me are the hardest to handle. Sometimes my hands are tied and I have to be around them. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Scott
Wonderful and informative.
Thank you for your wonderful comments. Take care. Scott
💎 – Diamond Hard – 💎
💎 I Enjoy “Negativity” 😉 EveryOne; because ‘Positivity’ can get really boring…for example, right NOW!!! I Have Hiccups; before I treated Hiccups as “Negative” NOW!!! I Understand that there is a ‘Positive’ reason for This “Negativity” EveryBody
💎 – Diamond Hard – 💎
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Thanks for reading and your insightful comments.
Very relatable and helpful, Scott. I think there are probably people in everyone’s life who are a source of negativity. It is impossible to cut all of them loose. They can be a source of sadness and frustration as well as a huge drain of our energy. It is not easy to maintain boundaries with someone you care deeply about.
Very true, Cheryl. Thank you for the feedback. You always make insightful points.
Such great points Scott! I find when I get attached to outcome of those I love I feel much more intolerant of them repeating behaviors and then I have to remember it’s NMP ( not my problem) . Not easy but doable!!! ❤️
I have the same issue. I will remember NMP. Nothing is easy but everything is doable, right? I am glad you are on the mend. 🤗
Yes, indeed very true. Me too.. moving through molasses beats being lost in quick sand at the moment. 💖 thanks 🙏🙏
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